Dr. Tracy's Archives

Over ten years of Love Advice Columns

Links to Dr. Tracy's prior Columns: Most recent first -- or jump down to 2007    2006    2005    2004    2003    2002    2001    2000    1999    1998    1997    1996    2008 Columns March 30th Column Silent Messages, Sneaky Computer Porn, Haunted by the Past Plus note from Dr. Tracy re her husband's cancer and her postings January 20th Column Bridal Fever, Entrepreneurial Fever, Still Friends with Ex-Lovers After Marriage 2007 Columns December 8th Column Wild Child, Stepchild Hell, Love and Self-esteem November 11th Column Saying "I love you", When to Tell the Truth, No Undies, no Nookie October 7th Column Having Doubts About Love, Nude TV Viewer, Can you say "Flake?" September 9th Column Moving for Love, Obsessed With An Ex, When the Odds Are Awful August 22nd Column Boyfriend's Baggage, When All the Men are Jerks, Who's in Charge? (No Columns in 2007 until August; Dr. Tracy still helping her husband fight cancer.) 2006 Columns (No Columns during remainder of 2006; Dr. Tracy devoting herself to helping her husband fight cancer.) July 23rd Column A Mate But Not A Match?, Open Marriage 2nd Thoughts, A Fool in Love July 9th Column "Needing Space", Stand By Your Man, Will He Change? June 4th Column He's Perfect But…, Trusting Him Again, Ex-Husband Hassles May 28th Column Men Who Need Control, Wants a Confession, Vacation Love May 21st Column The "Interim Man", Driving Men Away, Runaway Jerk May 7th Column Getting Married, Or?, Online Dating, Keeping Her Hooked April 30th Column Weakness for "Damsels in Distress", Daughter Dearest, Living Together Blues March 23th Column A Man Who Doesn't Like Children, In Business With A Lover, Guys Who Don't Make Moves March 5th Column What a Committed Relationship Means, She Wants Sex Now, When Is a Fetish Wrong? February 19th Column Interracial Marriage; Promises, Promises; Dating the Not-Quite-Divorced February 5th Column Fear of Commitment, The Doormat Husband, Is Honesty Always the Best Policy? January 29th Column More Parent Problems, Three-Way Fantasy, Bi-Sexually Curious January 15th Column Burned Out Fast, Wants Them Both, Baby Hunger Runs Amuck January 8th Column Husband "Not Happy", A Younger Person's Love, When to say "I love you" January 1st Column What Will My Ex Think?, He's "Not Ready", Avoiding Sex 2005 Columns (No December Columns; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays.) November 27th Column Home For The Holidays, A Man Who Can't Share, Overweight and shy November 13th Column He Can't Forgive Her "Past", Problems from Rushing Things, Male Baby Hunger October 30th Column Why Can't A Guy Say No?, Cheapskate Boyfriend?, Is Porn A Reason For Divorce? October 16th Column Check With The Ex, The Age-Old Pregnancy Trap, A Crush On The Boss October 9th Column Baby Hunger, Men Who Can't/Won't Commit, Drama Queen September 25th Column Too Ugly or Too Old To Love? In Love and Scared, Mother-In-Law from Hell September 18th Column Desperate for a Hug, Living Together, Smoker Being Manipulated September 11th Column Whose Money Is It Anyway?, Viagra Alone Doesn't Make It, What Is Enough August 28th Column Six Years is Too Long, The Endlessly Critical Girlfriend, A Man With No Baggage August 14th Column Bad Men or …, In Love With Two Men, Can He Be Trusted? August 7th Column But He Promised He'd Call!, Unable to Commit, The Most Common Female Fantasy July 24th Column When Kinky Sex Gets Nutsy, Better Off Alone, Same Time Next Year? July 3rd Column Guys Who Don't Want Sex, Making Men Fall In Love With You, Taking Him Back June 26th Column Now It's Sex Only, When to Say "I Love You," The Married Man Trap June 19th Column Virginity as a Problem, Carried Away - Far Away - With Cyberlove, Call Off the Wedding! June 12th Column Beware of Young Girls, The Grass is Greener, A Woman's Sexual Peak May 29th Column Friendship's Not Enough, Sneaking Her Into Swinging, She Wants to be Married or Dead May 15th Column Stuck on Mr. Wrong, A "Dear John" Letter, Women -- Can't Figure Them Out May 8th Column When You Can't Help, Confused Virgin, Lots of Excuses But No Wedding Date May 1st Column Her Mother Hates Him, What's His Game?, Jealous Swinger April 24th Column I Love You -- Goodbye!, He Likes Her Undies, Wants To Be More Than Friends April 3rd Column He Married a Lesbian, Vibrator Madness, Yearning For His High School Sweetheart March 13th Column Bashful Bi, Sex and Religion, For Love not Money February 27th Column When Not To Listen, What We Do For Love, How To Choose February 13th Column To Parent or Not to Parent…, A "No Gifts" Guy, Doesn't Like His Friends January 30th Column Valentine's Day Blues, Saying "I Love You", Not the Right Bling Bling January 23rd Column Great Guy, Bad Sex, Looking for Fatherhood, A Younger Man January 16th Column Three Strikes and You're Out!, Relationship Insurance, A Pet, Not a Partner January 9th Column Keeping Secrets, A Beautiful Friend, Timing is Everything 2004 Columns (No further December Columns; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays.) December 5th Column Good Enough To Play House, But…, His Ex Is Hovering, Trust November 28th Column To Tell Or Not To Tell, When Things Get Strange, Mistress at Xmas November 21st Column Commitment Timing, His Past is In Her Present, Father-in-Law from Hell November 7th Column When a Man Says "No", Something's Missing, Obsessing on a Lover October 31st Column Dangerous Signals, Putting Herself Out There With No Results, Old Lovers as Friends? October 24th Column Why Someone Isn't Attracted To You, When You Don't Get The Response You Want, Emotional Co-dependence October 17th Column In Love With a Cross-dresser, He’s a Momma’s Boy, His Email From Another Woman October 3rd Column Choosing Men, Finding An Old Love, Can A Pregnant Woman Date? September 26th Column Porn Stars in His Eyes; Strip Bars, Picking Fights and Self-Esteem; Marriage Material September 19th Column Commitment Phobic Or?, Masher or Pal?, A Physical Relationship September 12th Column His Jokes Hurt, He Won't Get A Divorce, Waiting for a "Love Accident" September 5th Column Is This Behavior Normal?, Single Mom Dating Dilemma, What About One More Shot? August 29th Column Put On Hold, Why Hubby Won't Stand Up For Her, In Love Vs. Love August 22nd Column When "Pushing" Becomes Ridiculous, Baggage, Bad or Worse August 8th Column Marriage in Name Only, Single Mother, Joining an Open Marriage July 25th Column Dangerous Dancing, Panty Power, Bimbo Alert July 18th Column A Secret Engagement, Disabled Dating, His Female Friend July 11th Column Nice Guys Finish Last, An Affair to Forget, His Clock is Ticking June 20th Column Annoying Habits, A Dead Relationship, Haunted by his Dead Wife June 13th Column Wanting To Be Married, How Do You Know Who’s The Right Person?, In Love With Two Men June 6th Column Desperate for Signs of Love, Love or Work, Not A Real Marriage May 30th Column Cheating?, Romeo and Juliet, Wait or Get Out? May 9th Column Living with Mom, Being Used?, Pursuing a Man Who’s Dating Someone Else April 25th Column Is He Playing Me?, What Can a Shy Guy Do?, Inexplicable Connection April 18th Column A Bad Kisser, What to Tell Your Partner, Without A Ring April 11th Column Taking Him Back, Is It Worth It?, A Friend’s Bad Decision March 28th Column Wrestling Match, Men and Work, Just Want to be “In-Love” Again March 21st Column Money and Dating, Sunk Emotions, Feeling Unloved March 14th Column His Relationship With God, On the Rebound, Why Does He Keep Doing This To Me? March 7th Column Bored Bride, Just Sex?, Some Relationships Are Weird February 22nd Column The Sweet Seduction of Fast Money, Girlfriend Disappears With Magician, Stay or Go? February 8th Column Valentine’s Day Hell, Falling Out Of Love, Blowing it Big Time February 1st Column The Intimacy Factor, Timing Is Everything, In Love With An Alcoholic January 25th Column Love and Butterflies, Her Ex Is Dead, But…, Not Ready To Marry January 18th Column Not Ready To Marry, Pre-Marital Blues, Some Men Are Just Duds January 11th Column He Wants Her To Be His Dominatrix, Breaking Up Blues, Hair January 4th Column Paying To Meet His Family, Confused Crossdresser, Not Quite A Commitment 2003 Columns (No December Columns; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays.) November 16th Column Kissing Counts, Really Nice Guys, Money Problems November 9th Column Her Male Friend, The Baby Problem, Sparks are Dying November 2nd Column Fantasy Sex, The One That Got Away, Relationship Compromises October 26th Column A Man Without a Career, Her Bi-History, Using Him Backfires October 19th Column Wants to be First, Orgasm Questions, Loving Crazy Ladies October 5th Column In Love With A Married Woman, Uphill Battle With His Family, Swinging Isn’t Easy September 28th Column Men Who Can’t Decide, Sex and Fantasizing, His Female Friend September 21st Column Marriage Psycho, A Man From Her Past, Best Friends vs. Love September 14th Column Men Who Are Born Users, Changing Friendship To Love, Who’s In Charge? September 7th Column When She Makes More Money, What to Give Up For Love, Kids Are Forever August 31st Column Sex With An Ex, Telling A Friend That You Love Them, Wedding Interruptus August 17th Column Who Pays?, Online Dating Profiles and Commitment, Broken Promises August 10th Column Watch Out For Men Like This, A Call From His Wife, Don’t Tell August 3rd Column Long Distance Love, Her Old Friend, Obsessed With An Old Love July 27th Column “Just for sex” Isn't Working, Was She Wrong?, Her Fantasy July 13th Column Paternity Puzzle, In Love With Two Men, Ex-Wife In Her Life July 6th Column Men Who Don’t Make Moves, Living Together -- All Together, Not Worth Keeping June 29th Column Poison Fix-up, Wants More Romance, Whoops, He’s Married June 22nd Column Culture Clash, Problems With An Ex, Feeling Used June 15th Column Baby Comes First, When Fights Become Abuse, Ladies Love Outlaws June 8th Column She’s Ruining A Perfect Relationship, A Fool for Love, Mom Wants To Arrange Her Marriage June 1st Column Vacation Romance, Playing With Fire, In Love With A Woman Who Isn’t Interested May 25th Column Teaching Old Dogs New Tricks, Sleeping with Ex’s, Her Love is Embarrassing May 11th Column Is He Cheating?, Excitement Junky in Love, Rejected by His Daughter May 4th Column Ready For Sex, Girlfriend Lies About Him, Sleeping With Strangers April 27th Column Men Who Come On Too Strong, Relationships of Convenience, Tough Requirements April 6th Column Marrying a Geek, His Woman Friend, Married Men are Poison March 30th Column Prisoner of Love, A Princess is a Pain, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun March 23rd Column Creepy Ex Dating Best Friend, Mother From Hell, Transvestite Pornography March 16th Column Controlling Parents, Verbal Abuse, Fundamental Differences March 9th Column Men Who Love You, But…, Surviving Cheating, Women Who "Need Space" February 23rd Column Sex On A First Date, Gifts and Holidays, Sex for Three February 16th Column Not Getting Enough Time, Visiting With Parents, A Price For Everything February 9th Column Puff Puffing Their Love Away, A Friend In Terrible Trouble, Valentine’s Day February 2nd Column Mother-In-Law Tales, Asking for Trouble, Online Relationship Games People Play January 26th Column Does Living Together Lead To Marriage?, Nice Guy Finishes Last, Why Does She Love Him January 19th Column Virginity - Tell or ??, Is My Wife A Lesbian?, A Fantasy Love January 12th Column When to Tell What, Falling Back In Love, Pregnant and Confused 2002 Columns December 29th Column Sex Without Problems, His Kid Drives Her Nuts, Hard Choices (No December 15th or 22nd Columns; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays.) December 8th Column Feelings For Her Ex, Break Up Or Stay Together, Angry At Her Own Choices December 1st Column In Love With A Commitment Phobe, Prenuptial Agreement, Men Who Tease November 17th Column Women Who Give Too Much, Verbal Abuse, Peeking Through Keyholes November 10th Column The Wedding Ring, Where There's Smoke…, Crazy Ladies And The Men Who Love Them November 3rd Column When To Get Out, Too Old, The Wrong Man October 27th Column Husband's No Nooky Lament, The "L" Word, Scared by Pregnancy October 6th Column A Married Boyfriend, The Porn Collector, Looking For A Formula September 29th Column Second-Time-Around Problems, Can Men Change?, Most Relationships Don't Work September 22nd Column What Counts As Cheating?, Getting to Marriage, Nagging Wife September 15th Column Just Wants To Be Friends, Is She Too Young?, When To Tell About the Past September 8th Column Culture Clash, A Woman of Independent Means, First Love September 1st Column Embarrassing Her Boyfriend, Good Vibrations, Divorced and Unsure August 18th Column A Silent Agreement, Moving for Love, How To Be Great In Bed August 11th Column Size Is A State of Mind,Marrying Mr. Wonderful, Married Before August 4th Column Hung Up On Her Ex, Her Elusive Orgasm, Telling About Her Past July 28th Column About to Blow It Bigtime, A Stray Arrow, After a Break-Up July 21st Column Internet Porn, Afraid of Getting Hurt, To Tell or Not to Tell July 14th Column Engagement Issues, Afraid to Commit, Run, Run, Run July 7th Column Playing Hard To Get, Wants Him To Pop The Question, Men Who Can't Love June 23rd Column Another Mistake, Busy With Friends, Swinging Just A Little June 16th Column Lost Virginity, Vacation Romance, Love at First Sight June 2nd Column Can He Be Trusted?, Terrorizing Ex, Old Lovers Never Die May 26th Column Creating Monsters, An Extremist Boyfriend, Too Young To Be In Love May 19th Column Is This Cheating?, Men Who Don't Want Sex, Too Much Baggage May 12th Column She Wants To Move In, Who Gets the Ring, Commitment May 5th Column Wants Him Back, Almost Single, Singing A Sour Note April 21st Column Why Demanding People Find Love, Blown Away By A Smoker, Abusive Men April 14th Column Make Him Crawl, What's Sexy?, Selfish Men Make Bad Husbands April 7th Column Penpal in the Pen, Afraid to Commit, A Virgin's Lament March 31st Column Problems With His Selfish Family, Can't Trust, Dealing With Children from His Previous Marriage March 17th Column His Brother's Keeper, Crazy in Love, Getting Him Back March 10th Column More than a Religious Problem, Pressured to Marry, Does their Age Difference Matter? March 3rd Column Swinging vs. Open Relationship, The Relationship Kiss of Death, Her Daughter's Last Chance February 17th Column Living Together, Asian Women, Pushing Too Hard February 10th Column Strip Clubs, Two Time Loser, Is He Unfaithful? February 3rd Column Beauty is Only Skin Deep, To Tell or Not to Tell, When Religions Differ January 27th Column When Three's Not a Crowd, In A State of Shock, Toxic Relationships January 20th Column Married Men Make the Best Lovers?, Erasing His Old Memories, Toxic Parents January 13th Column Out of Town Does Count, Do Not Trust This One, Gives Great Phone January 6th Column Best Friends, In Love with a Younger Man, Crazy Love 2001 Columns (No December 22nd or December 29th Columns; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays.) December 16th Column Rich Guys are Different, Mistress to Wife, Meeting the Family December 9th Column She Likes Sex, The Camera Lies, No Fool like an Old Fool December 2nd Column Marriage Phobic, Sex Too Soon?, A Wife on the Loose November 25th Column When An Old Lover Appears, Cross-Dressing Fiancé, Can This Relationship Be Saved? November 11th Column Different Tastes, Learning to Tell the Difference, Making a Move November 4th Column Wife To Share, Is He For Real Or Is She Being Led On? October 21st Column Internet Not Just for Beauty Queens, Do All Women Cheat?, Critical Men October 14th Column Do All Men Cheat?, Her Husband Hates Sex, Answering Personals October 7th Column Crazy for Cousin, Asking Him, Online Boyfriend September 30th Column Rush to the Altar, When Love Hurts, Sneaking Around September 23rd Column Life's Not Perfect, Getting Screwed, Wedding Day Nag September 16th Column The Terrorist Attack, A Younger Woman Burns Out, Mates Before Dates September 2nd Column His Fantasy Woman, Driving Him Crazy, When To Get Out August 26th Column Can Psychics Predict Love?, Nice Guys (and Doormats) Finish Last, Response to 8/19 Column August 19th Column Love Without Marriage or Children, The Wrong Way to Get A Man, His Girlfriend's Best Friend August 5th Column His Little Lies, Too Much Time With His Mother, Wedding Rituals Tearing Them Apart July 29th Column Less Than Perfect Marriage Proposal, Big Beautiful Love, The Flighty Princess July 22th Column What's Cheating and What's Not, Lover's Tantrums, Worried About His Ex July 15th Column Crazy Love, Internet-style, When a Woman Loves A Woman, Dangerous Man July 8th Column Sex Does Nothing For Her, Waiting Too Long, Too Young To Really Be In Love June 24th Column Old Boyfriend, Old Spark, Speed Kills, A Heart That's Been Broken and Broken and Broken June 17th Column Can't Trust, Lousy Live-In, Guilt Ridden June 10th Column Her Cross-dressing Husband, Guys Who Make You Crazy, The Virgin Problem June 3rd Column Worried About Her Boyfriend's Ex, Putting Up With Flaky Guys, Little Brother From Hell May 13th Column Lousy Kisser, Her Love or Her Kids, A Good Time to Break Up May 6th Column Ruined by Porn, Men Who Never Grow Up, Too Tame in the Bedroom April 29th Column Crazy In Love, Money Problems, What's Important in a Mate April 22nd Column Whom Can You Trust, Too Young To Be Serious, Separated But Not Divorced April 1st Column A Dangerous Man, Her Lover's Past, He Wants a Threesome March 25th Column Dating a Doctor, In Touch With An Ex, Marriage and Money March 18th Column A Woman is More Than Her Body, Sex Doesn't Cost That Much, Loving Her Ex March 11th Column Baby Hunger, Jealous Over An Ex's Happiness, Abusive Controlling Men Don't Change February 11th Column Blame It On The Bird, A Woman of a Certain Age Wants To Marry, Married Women Don't February 4th Column Irked by her Career, Why Men Fear Marriage, Her Boyfriend's Spying January 28th Column Afraid of Losing Him; Who Pays For What, Who Owns What?; When To Say "I Love You" January 21st Column He Wants Children, She Has Enough, Threesomes Can Be Dangerous, A Boyfriend To Beware Of January 7th Column Waiting To Break Up, Is He Being a Jerk?, Dating Agencies 2000 Columns (No December 24th or December 31st Columns; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays.) December 17th Column A Hooker's Bite, Gay Lust, She Found His Pictures December 10th Column Her Fella's Fantasy, Married To A Man, In Love With A Woman, His Past Includes Hookers December 3rd Column Mixed Marriage, His Ex-wife's Picture, Needing "Space" November 26th Column Is He Interested?, Torn Between Two Lovers, Coming Out November 12th Column Wants to Know Where It's Going, Gay Love, Hubby Wants to Watch November 5th Column Getting Him Back, Hot for Her Boss, To Call or Not to Call, That is The Question October 29nd Column Social Butterfly and Stick-in-the-Mud, Yipes! Her fiancé is Married, Common Law Marriage October 22nd Column A Crazy-Maker?, Asking Him Out, Having It All October 15th Column House + Dog + Joint Checking=Marriage, In Search of Three-Way Sex, Internet Cheat October 8th Column Too Old for a 20-Year-Old; Grooms Don't Plan Weddings; Bi, Gay, Straight? October 1st Column Excuses Men Make, Her Husband Wears the Panties, A Woman in Love September 24th Column I Want Another Woman Fast, Men Who Inhale, A Man With A Past September 17th Column Old Porn Star, Don't Ask, Don't Tell, Cyber-Jerk September 10th Column When They Get Mad, Internet Love, Eyes Wide Shut August 20th Column Her Legs Turn Him Off, His Internet Affair, Pictures of His Ex August 13th Column A Confirmed Bachelor?, He's Never Satisfied, Chat Room Lies August 6th Column Swinging Gone Bad, Love Online, No Sunshine When She's Gone July 30th Column Dirty Dancing, Reading His Signals, Gay Husband July 23rd Column A Husband's Dangerous Friendship, Men Who Won't Wear Condoms, She Runs Hot and Cold July 16th Column Tempted by a Lap Dance, Putting the First-Date-Sex Genie back in the Bottle, Pictures of His Ex July 9th Column Good Vibrations, In Love With A Gay Guy, A Crazy-Maker June 25th Column The Virgin's Dilemma, What is Cheating?, His Broken Heart is Driving Him to Drink June 18th Column Pearls Before Swine, Wants To Share His Wife, Is She Interested in More? June 11th Column He Doesn't Feel "The Passion," Sucked In by A Vampire, Money Matters June 4th Column Swinger's Dance, Boyfriend in the Wings, Mother-in-Law From Hell May 21st Column Beware the Au Pair, How Much To Put Up With, Last Chance For Love May 14th Column Deserves To Be Married, In Love With an Ex, Climbing the Wrong Rock May 7th Column Dances For Wolves, Mooning Over A Dead Ex, Sex For Fun April 30th Column Will First Love Last?, Sexy Secrets in the Attic, The Princess and the Frog April 23rd Column Dragged to Bed, He Wears Heels, A Flirting Friend April 16th Column Not Gay to Stay, Reading The Signs, Parents Don't Approve April 9th Column Right Woman, Wrong Time, A Fool For Love, Confessions Aren't Always Good For The Soul April 2nd Column Can't Stop Fighting Long Enough To Get Married, He's Got Two Loves, She Wants to Try a Woman March 26th Column A Dangerous Game, A Secret Past, Foolish To Be Friends March 19th Column Enable No More, Can't Get Over Her Past or His, Don't Put Anything in Writing March 12th Column My Wife Works at a "Gentlemen's Club"; Dump the Guy, Get a Dog; Help With Stepkids March 5th Column If You Have To Fight, Fight Fair, When He's Not Romantic, When He "Needs Variety" February 20th Column Breaking Up Is Easier Than Cracking Up, The Sounds of Love, Waiting To Hear The Magic Words February 13th Column Her Best Friend's Wedding, Coping With A Cross-Dresser, Won't Hold Her Hand February 6th Column In Love With Her Sister's Man, My Lover's Kid Is Driving Me Nuts, Sex Before Marriage January 30th Column "We're not Swingers, but...", Bothered by His Past, In Love with a Hooker January 23rd Column Bride Fever, Entrepreneurial Madness, Ex-Lovers as Friends After Marriage January 16th Column To Marry or Not?, Open Marriage, A Fool for Lesbian Love January 9th Column Long Distance Love, Stand By Your Man, Will He Change? January 2nd Column Wedding Day Blues, Run Around Naked, Slobs Need Love Too 1999 Columns (December 19th and 26th Columns skipped; Dr. Tracy off for the Holidays) December 12th Column He Doesn't Want Children, Mixing Business With A Relationship, Undemonstrative Men December 5th Column Looking For One Good Man, When To Get Out, Mother-In-Law Hell November 28th Column Getting A Guy; Love Me, Love My Tree; He Calls Her By His Ex's Name November 21st Column A Controlling Man, Why Can't He (or Won't He) Commit?, She's Irresistible to Him November 14th Column He "Needs Space", No Longer Lonely in Texas, To the Bigot in Disguise November 7th Column Living Together, Wants Sex Now, Is My Fetish Sick? October 31st Column Is the Age Difference Too Much? Marriage or Else, Parents vs. fiancé October 24th Column Verbally Abusive Boyfriend, Fear of Intimacy, Menage a Trois October 17th Column Love Me, Love My Dog, A Really Bad Surprise, He's Hot and She's Not October 10th Column Love With a Younger Man, Online Lies, More Interracial Problems October 3rd Column Interracial and Semi-Engaged, Waiting Too Long to Get Married, Dating Men who are "Separated" September 26th Column Fear of the "M" Word, Married and Miserable, Honesty: The Best Policy? September 19th Column Parent Problems Again, Can We Swing?, Bi-Curious September 12th Column Unhappy Husband, The Age Difference Problem, The "L" Word August 29th Column Attached to an Ex, Desperate and Depressed, To have Sex or… August 22nd Column Falling in Love on Vacation, Gay Girls and "The Look," Older Woman Catches Young Man's Eye August 15th Column Worried About Her Past, Confused and Scared, Male Baby Hunger August 8th Column Double Standard, Cheapskate Boyfriend?, Husband's Pornography Bums Her Out August 1st Column Ex's Are Valuable, It Takes Two, Hots for The Boss July 25th Column Too Nice to Get What She Wants, Moving In Together Makes Parents Fume, The Woman of His Dreams? July 18th Column Too Cool to Choose, Settling for a Bi Guy, Three's A Crowd July 11th Column A Fool For Him, Nude Models Need Love Too, Can Kids Kill their Love? June 20th Column Never Had A Date, In Love but Insecure, Mother-In-Law Problems June 13th Column Desperate for Affection, Living Together Is Not Enough, A Lonely Smoker May 30th Column Six Years is Too Long, Memories Make Her Mad, A Man With No Baggage May 23rd Column Desperate Stepmom, Engaged but not Turned On, Healthy Anger May 16th Column Reconciliation Isn't Easy, When He Needs A Little Push, Porn Hubby May 9th Column Nine and a Half Months, She's Hot, He's Not, Wedding Bell Blues May 2nd Column In Love With a Married Man, Men Who Can't (Or Won't) Say "I Love You", Just For Sex April 25th Column A Virgin in Lust, On the Road To Morocco, Stop the Wedding! April 18th Column She's Perfect -- But..., A Too-Long Engagement, Nervous Breakdown in Hong Kong April 11th Column Dr. Tracy Returns -- Her Very Personal Message, Man Wants To Exchange 46-Yr.-Old For 17-Yr. Old, Old Love Letters January 10th Column Fear Of Valentine's Day, How Much Togetherness is Too Much, Barely A Virgin January 3rd Column Where is He? Why Doesn't He Call?; Trouble With Commitment; Her Female Fantasy 1998 Columns (December 27th Column -- Time off for Dr. Tracy for the holidays) December 20th Column Christmas Party Regrets, Her Son is Driving Them Apart, Who Pays These Days December 13th Column Home for the Holidays, Man Who Can't Share, Wants Wife to be a Nudist too December 6th Column Relationship Danger Signal, Those Three Little Words -- When to Say Them, How Do You Have an "Open" Relationship? November 22nd Column Long Distance Love, Wife's Online Sweetie, Will He Like My Kids? November 15th Column Is Three A Crowd?, When It's A Kiss-Off, Is It Love? November 8th Column Little Miss Homewrecker, Prior Commitments, Sexual Peaks in Men and Woman November 1st Column Making His Wife's Fantasy A Reality, Wants to Get It Off Her Chest, In Cyberlove October 11th Column Boyfriend's Mysterious Disappearance; Panties Yes, Kids No; Lying, Cheating Husband October 4th Column No Easy Way Out, Crazy in Ireland, What To Do on a Date September 27th Column No Sex, Husband wants to Swing, Wants to be Married This Year or Dead September 20th Column The Masturbation Mystery, Getting Back Together, Transition Guy Feels Used September 6th Column Can't Fall in Love, May-December Romance, Is His Temper a Problem? August 30th Column Missing Sex Drive, The Parent Problem, In Defense of Indian parents August 23rd Column Ask Monica, Love His Kids, When to Forgive, When to Forget August 9th Column Letter Burning a Hole in Her Pocket, Choosing Between Wife and Masturbation, Letter to a Virgin August 2nd Column Moving in Together - Who Pays?, Cross-Dressers Can Be Fun, May+September=0 Kids July 26th Column Last Word on the "M" Word, Big Beautiful Woman Finds Truth, A Virgin with a Wonderful Life July 19th Column Crazy Love, May/December Romance, Old Enough to Know Better July 12th Column Too Angry to Love, Her Family Objects, Who to Choose -- Mr. Boring or Mr. Rocks My World July 5th Column Sometimes You Just Can't Win; Fear of Gay Love, Cross-Dresser Needs Love June 28th Column Who's In Charge; In Love vs. Loving; Who Grows, How Fast, and When June 7th Column Fascinated by an Older Man, Nice Guys Finish Last, Waiting Too Long May 31st Column Guys Who Wear the Panties, She's Been Moving Out For Two Years, No Nookie May 24th Column Sex With Her Ex, Best Friend's Role, Big Beautiful Woman Finds Truth May 17th Column His Ex is a Mess, Can't figure out Women, Attracted to Gorilla May 3rd Column Hopelessly Devoted to Mr. Wrong, A "Dear John" Letter, Wedding Date Blues April 26th Column Big Beautiful Woman in Love With Small Minded Man, His Buddy's Wife, Parents Can Only See Black and White April 19th Column Ex-Wife Won't Go Away, When To Tell, A Desperate Woman April 12th Column Children Don't Want Him To Remarry, In Love With A Married Man, Torn Between Two Men April 5th Column Blowing His Mind With the "M" Word, The "M" Word Didn't Make Him Jump With Joy; Surprise! She Wants To Get Married March 29nd Column Sick of Her, Lies Come Back to Haunt You, All the Men are Duds March 22nd Column Haunted by the Past, More than a Virgin, The "M" Word March 15th Column Love Me, Love My Dog, The Kid Question, Do Opposites Attract? March 8th Column Waiting for Him to Get His Act Together, Waiting for Him to Stop Cross-Dressing, Waiting for Him to Be a Daddy February 22nd Column The Couple that Masturbates Together..., Who Pays?, Controllers February 15th Column Mad Passionate Lover, Bi-Sexual Daddy, Her Toungue in His Mouth February 8th Column Stupid Rules, Sexy Feet, Loving a Player February 1st Column Lesbian Love, Lonely Dad, Ex-Wife Problems January 25th Column Money and Love, Men Who Wear the Panties, Men Who Don't January 18th Column What's With Clinton?, The Question of Children, Too Many Women January 11th Column In Love with a Married Man, Too Good To Be True, She Doesn't Want Sex January 4th Column Her Mother Hates Him, What's His Game, The Pain of Swinging 1997 Columns (December 21-28/97: -- Time off for Dr. Tracy for the holidays) December 14th Column Dangerous Dad; Money, Money, Money; Smothering the Flame December 7th Column In Love with a Virgin, Masturbation, Can a Married Woman be a Lesbian? November 30th Column Not Getting any Younger, Still Looks Young, Trapped by Prejudice November 23rd Column I Love You... Goodby!, He Likes Her Undies, Wants to be More than a Friend November 16th Column Is Living Together Bad for a Future Marriage? Can I Make Her Love Me? Hopeless in Oklahoma November 9th Column Married Dancers Have to Tell, Cyber Swinging, A Doomed Relationship November 2nd Column Online Love Story, Different Religions, Mail Order Bride from Philippines October 26th Column Online Romance Gets Real, Perfectionist Problems, A Virgin and Proud of It October 19th Column Should We Live Together, Breaking Up is Hard To Do, Never Had a Boyfriend October 12th Column Jeckel & Hyde, Wanna Be Like Those Sexy Parents, Cultural Confusion October 5th Column Confused New Dater, Lovesick and Wants Him Back, A Crush on Her Teacher September 7th Column He's a Heartbreaker, The Kiss of Death, An Abusive Wife August 31st Column To Confess or Not, Marriage on the Rocks, In Love with Her Boss August 24th Column Love Won't Happen If You're Looking? Star-Crossed Lovers; His Kids Are A Pain August 17th Column Love Him, Can't Love His Mother; In Love or In Fantasy?; Will He Cheat Again? August 10th Column Why Did He Say No?, Faithful or Playing Around?, Time for an Ultimatum July 20th Column Can Friends Be Lovers? On Again, Off Again Love, Wants It Both Ways July 13th Column Hanging All Over Each Other, He Wants Too Much, Love Me Love My Cat July 6th Column Time To Let Go, No Kisses, He's Gone/She's Blue June 29th Column The Magic Words, Attracted and Crushed, Trouble on the Net June 22nd Column Making a Man Fall in Love, Her Friend's Ex, Her Guy's Family June 15th Column Flak from last week's column, Engaged and Depressed, Under Her Mother's Thumb June 8th Column Parents Too Sexy for their Kid?, "The Rules" will make you crazy, A Husband in Name Only May 11th Column When A Man Loves A Woman, Getting Her to Trust Him, Her Most Sensitive Part May 4th Column Third Wheel in a Threesome, Do Nice Guys Finish Last?, Her Parents Turn Him Off April 27th Column Lost Virginity, Lost Love, Wedding Day Blues, Interracial Relationship Problem April 20th Column In Love with a Married Man, Teenager In Love with an Older Man, He Wears High Heels March 23rd Column Internet Love, Broken-Hearted Mess-up, In Love with Lovable Flake March 16th Column CyberTrash, Wigged out in bed, When to have sex March 9th Column East Meets/Loves West, Bothered by her Past, Norwegian Girls March 2nd Column He Married a Lesbian, She's Got a Momma's Boy, Yearning For His High School Sweetheart February 23rd Column Almost Married, A Stripper for His Wife, Remorseful "Relationship Murderer" February 16th Column Sixteen and Old, Confused Love, Hot for a Friend's Girlfriend February 9th Column Will He Change? Discovering He's Bi, Oversexed February 2nd Column Romance in Cyberspace, He Blew It, Sign Language January 26th Column Seductive stud -- fact or fantasy?, Suspiciously unavailable man, Making love even harder to find January 19th Column Bewitched by "Cyberlove", Ready to commit! Now what?, Lost Virginity Blues 1996 Columns December 29th Column Is Reading Playboy Normal?, The Past Poisons the Present, Involved With Her Married Boss December 22nd Column "The Rules", Naked in the Backseat, The Good Old Days when Love was Free December 15th Column Bi and Shy, The Religion Problem, Ex "Escort" November 24th Column You're Never Too Young, The Sincerely Lovelorn Elvis, Don't Scare Him Away November 17th Column Beautiful is Tall and Blonde - NOT!, The Erection Problem, Fed up with Selfish Husband November 10th Column Long Distance Love Fades, Too Much Criticism Kills Love, Attracted to Men Who Are Taken November 3rd Column Too Immature to Love, Controlled By Her Parents, The Virginity Problem October 27th Column Lonely Beautiful Blonde, The Ex in her Life, Lousy Sex October 20th Column Vibrator Madness, Poet in Love, Net Dating Dilemma October 13th Column The "Other Woman" Blues, Broken Engagements, Pre-Marital Hornies October 6th Column Bisexual Trouble, She's Too Young, Dance Teacher's Darling September 29th Column NetCrazy Love, Is There Hope?, Consequences for Lovers September 22nd Column Romeo with a darkside, Love me, love my hair, Doing it one more time September 15th Column The Neanderthal Male, He Just Wants To Be Friends, Wants A More Perfect Man August 25th Column Nobody's Prince, The Sleeping Orgasm, Virgin Lover August 18th Column Older and Unrequited at 30, Wannabee Swinger, Slept with an ex August 11th Column Parting is such Sweet Sorrow, Baby hunger, He wants romance August 4th Column The Heel Repents, Good In Bed vs. Love, Is It Over or Not? July 28th Column Don't Tell!, Virgins are scarce, Commitment Phobic July 14th Column Too In Love, Looking for Mr. Right, Can Cyber-love Get Real? July 7th Column Worrying needlessly, More time vs. sex now?, Runs hot and cold June 30th Column Engaged and confused, Attracted to much older women, Virtual better than Real? June 23th Column Giving too much -- way too much, Driving 'em nuts, Feeling Rejected June 16th Column Will I Always be Kicked Around?, Playing with Fire, Why Can't I Have an Orgasm? June 9th Column Husband at the Neighborhood Bar, Just Friends, Love Me, Love My Kids June 2nd Column Tap-dancing on your heart, Tightwad Boyfriend, Ignored at parties May 26th Column When Crazies Recover, Slaves and Masters, Is this "The One"? May 19th Column Reluctantly in Control, An interfering mother, Impatient on Cloud Nine May 12th Column Time Waster, Too Many Friends?, The Big Rush May 5th Column A Toothless Deadline, Too Perfect for his own Good, Wanna-be Mom April 28th Column What's Wrong with Living Together?, A "Born-again Virgin", Cyber-flirting with Disaster April 21st Column Crazy ladies, A Friend -- or A Lover?, Entrepreneurial madness April 14th Column The "Evil Girlfriend", Needing to be needed, Lesbian possessiveness April 7th Column Lost in lust, A Jerk is a Jerk is a Jerk, Being a Doormat Mar. 31st Column A problem With Porn, Choosing to be childless?, Escaping an abuser Mar. 24th Column Sexual incompatibility, The "Dance-Away Lover," Caught up in being single Mar. 17th Column Afraid of being alone, A 27-year age difference, Rushing things Mar. 10th Column Bad advice from friends, No kids?, Can you ever trust a cheater? Mar. 3rd Column "Training wheels lover," Driving men off, Runaway jerk Feb. 25th Column Enraged over infidelity, The elusive Cyberlover, Choosing and breaking up Feb. 18th Column Low self-esteem, Love and lies on the Net, Fantasy prospects Feb. 11th Column Mr. Unavailable, Curing commitment phobia, Police wife's blues Feb. 4th Column Bisexual or just experimental?, Re-stoking the fire, Too smart to play the Mating Game? Jan. 28th Column "Let's just be friends," A classic Waffler, Overweight and shy Jan. 21st Column How to talk dirty, Understanding "No," A guy to dump Jan. 14th (1996) Column Men wearing panties, 3-way sex, Dealing with an uncommunicative man Return to "Ask Dr. Tracy" Home Page © copyright 1995-2008 Tracy Cabot